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July 11, 2012 By 10 Comments

Now, I want to buy a zoo: movies that make me cry like a girl

This week, the League has asked what movie makes you cry like a little girl. Well, if you asked me that question ten years ago, my response would have been {snort} “nothin’. pfft,” but all that bravado went away seven years ago. You see, seven years ago, I became a father. They don’t tell you this in school, but when you become a dad, whatever emotional dikes you might have built up inside you are laid to waste, and all those feelings you had bottled up come bursting through in a rush. To this day, I am convinced that the nurse injected me with an additional X chromosome while I was holding my son for the first time.

The day my son was born may have the first time I had cried since scraping my knee as a kid, but believe me, once that door was opened, there was no closing it again. Now I get choked up at little things that I would have mocked in my younger years. If there is a movie that features a father and his kids, or a husband and his wife, and one is in peril, I physically can’t watch it. I stopped watching shows like ER due to the fact that every other episode had a sick child dying. No more, not for me, no way, I’m out.

we bought a zooLast weekend, I was looking through the On-Demand listing for a something that would be a fun “Date Night” movie and We Bought a Zoo looked promising. The trailer was upbeat and the music was good. Cameron Crowe directed it? I loved Jerry Maguire and Almost Famous. Sold. Fire it up.

Oh dear Lord!

I’d like to go on record as stating that this is the most falsely-advertised movie i have ever seen. This movie wrecked me! Don’t get me wrong, it was an enjoyable movie and it did have an uplifting ending, but man.

If you haven’t seen it, I’m going to spoil it here, so you can stop reading and just think of me as a crying sissy.

The premise of the movie is that the wife of Matt Damon’s character passed away 6-months ago after an illness of some sort. Right there it’s tragic enough, but there are also two kids involved, a 14-year-old boy and an impossibly cute little girl. So, the whole family is struggling with the loss of their wife and mother. There is a scene where Matt Damon is clicking through iPhoto on his Mac laptop–he has an album of his favorite photos of his wife–and I lost it right there with him. Oh, it hurts. I’m losing it again right now.

Hoo. Okay, that was rough, but in addition to the loss of his wife, Matt Damon’s character is having trouble connecting with his son, who is struggling with his own grief, and just wants to be loved and held like his little sister. Like I said earlier, if a movie has a touching scene between a father and his son, I am done. Remember Field of Dreams’ “Dad, you want to have a catch?” or when Rudy’s dad learned that his son made it into Notre Dame? Here is the redemptive scene in the movie that made me a fan…

The movie ends with another emotionally-charged scene in a coffee shop, where the father reenacts the first moment he met the kid’s mother years ago. Crud, there I go again.

We Bought a Zoo ruined me for the rest of the weekend but I am grateful for watching it. Unfortunately, this isn’t the only movie that gets me choked up. I’ve got it pretty bad–some other movies that recently got me reaching for the Kleenex: Saving Private Ryan, The Road, Red Dawn, The Pursuit of Happyness, Up, Toy Story 3, and don’t even get me started on Marley & Me.

 

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league logo This is the latest post in response to the weekly blog challenge presented by the League of Extraordinary Bloggers. I’m not the only one sitting in a dusty room, here are a few others: TL, Jaime, Eric, and Jason.

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  1. shezcrafti says

    July 11, 2012 at 3:54 pm

    Yup, I knew there was a good reason I’ve been avoiding this movie! I heard it was a huge cry fest and this just confirms it. I’ll save it for a depressing rainy day when I’m on my period. (This joke dedicated to the grossly underrepresented female population of The League.)

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    • Brian says

      July 11, 2012 at 6:18 pm

      Don’t do it Jaime! You’ll be eating ice cream by the bucketload. 😉

      I agree that the fairer sex is grossly underrepresented in the League, so let’ s see what we can do about signing up some more bloggers like you!

      Reply
  2. Rob Skellington says

    July 12, 2012 at 5:19 am

    Holy Sh*t lol this was on my short list, it is a touching movie with a killer soundtrack IMO. Good call dude! Some great shortlist choices you have to, why we are all big soppy bastards arnt we lmao 😉

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    • Brian says

      July 12, 2012 at 10:29 am

      It’s a sickness. 😉

      Reply
  3. Jason says

    July 12, 2012 at 10:22 am

    Haven’t seen it, but sounds like one that would get me as well. Good to know I’m not the only one that has the same fatherly tear duct problem. Was reading through those first couple paragraphs and going “yep, aha, yep, yep.” I became a father almost 8 years ago now and find the same things happening to me. Sometimes it’s hard to answer your kid’s movie questions like “Daddy, is E.T. dead?” (sniff sniff) “Y-Y-Y-Yes. He’s dead.” (blows nose)
    Maybe we should start a support group….

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    • Brian says

      July 12, 2012 at 10:31 am

      Me: Hi, my name is Brian, and I cry every time I watch ET.

      All: Hi Brian!

      😉

      Reply
  4. kngfu says

    July 13, 2012 at 12:24 pm

    Just watched TOY STORY 3 projected onto a sheet while camping last week and I must have gotten some dirt or ash in my eye at the end of the film.

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    • Brian says

      July 13, 2012 at 12:32 pm

      I bet is was the smoke from the campfire.

      Reply
  5. Mike says

    July 15, 2012 at 10:48 pm

    I saw this movie during easter dinner with the family. I didnt think it would be as good as it was.

    Reply

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